I was talking to my most experienced friend earlier today. She's a pro at relationships, dating and sex. I'm a novice. I might as well have sexual Similac on my breath. I wanted to know if it was possible to get a man interested via sex and then turn sex into a relationship. She assured me that it was not possible and it is a really, really, bad idea if I am thinking of trying it. She said that I would only get my feelings hurt.
But I think I want to try it anyway. What can I say? I'm stubborn.
The guy in question is this sexy beast of a man that I know. He's about 6 ft, darker than dark chocolate with smooth skin and a great smile. His body is muscular and looking at him makes me wet. The worst part is that he is a well-mannered gentleman and will be attending med school in the Fall.
We went to high school together and I ran into him at a football game a few months ago. Have you ever met someone and the sexual energy was off the chain? When I'm around him ALL I can think of is sex. I try to ignore it and think of something else but it never works. It affects him too. When he talks to me he can never stay on the subject. Every conversation ends in sex. We'll talk about positions or possible places to pull an "Anytime, Anywhere" a la Janet Jackson. It got so sexually frustrating that I finally asked him one day if he was interested in just doing it with no strings attached. Of course, he was. But we never did. I couldn't. I'd make plans to, I'd say that I was on my way and sometimes I was already on the freeway when I changed my mind. I believed that I would never have the relationship I wanted if I just handed my kittykat to him. But eventually we fell off anyway.
I had no idea how to get him interested and last year I was dealing with serious self-esteem issues and slight depression. I wasn't being myself and couldn't keep anyone interested. Now that I have goals and plans and know what I want out of life and in a man - I don't know how to get him.
I recently had a raunchy dream about him after not thinking about him for months. I decided to send him a text message (and they are STILL the Devil) to let him know that I had a dream about him and wanted to see him again. He called back immediately and said that he wanted to see me that very same night. The weather was crazy so I declined. However, at least now I know that communication is still open between us. So how do I get him? I know that that crazy sexual tension will still be there. But I don't know if that's all he felt or if he wanted more also.
If I finally give him the kittykat, can I move towards a relationship, or is that setting myself up for failure as my friend told me? I really need help with this one, he's such a great catch.
I know that men love the kitty and it takes damn near no effort on a woman's part to make them cum. But can that make them stay?
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